Saturday, June 25, 2005

Oh, in such situation, I really hope I do have all the answer about love …

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Mr Right Now or Mr Right?
07:46 PM

I drove my car one day and a friend of mine told me that he is tired of being single , and he wants to have a boyfrined immediately. A.S.A.P what people now day call. the issue here, are we looking for Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?

Personally, i think that being single or live as a couple with the soulmate(s) have it own pro and cons. being single, u can easily go elsewhere i.e TASIK without thinking to take care other person's feeling . like an instance, u can just go to clubs i.e BB without telling your boyfriend and also u can just exchange numbers with the hot guys or i prefer to label them as hot jocks (",). i also can easily go out at night during weekdays to go round the town, have midnite-meal at anywhere where it is full with hot jocks i.e KG BARU! notty me! easily shopping with fren , yeah being single means more time for firneds, pets and even family members. it does take one name out from the special person's list.

does having a couple and a soulmate (which i don't know till when it will last~) is really important? does holding hands and go to club as couple is really our biggest ambition? does went to romantic movies and being appretiace by him/her is really important? even though that i know being appreciate by family members and friends is something different ( i had feel it though) but nevertheless, should we find the Mr Right immediately and suddenyl he became the Mr Right Now?

again, personally i think that if we just let the time find our soulmate and just laid back and enjoy our single lifestyle it is much more better and will carry us to another level, happiness and less stress. by then, if the time work all its magical movement, then we had time to know the person alot more better, his personality, his innate feeling and instict. rather than searching the special guy like a sort of tresure hunt in Kuala Lumpur, tasik and Blue boy we will obviously fall in love with the person's facial and physical outlook. well, this criteria really get boring in couple of days and it will leave us bored with our soulmates . end up, it will make us Duda and Janda in days or even month.

i have a story to share. i have another fren. he went to BB, met a guy, follow the guy back to his place, and sudddenly they are couple the morning after .they had been togerther for at least one month and now my friend is single while his ex-boy enjoys his precious mopment with a new schoolkid boyfriend. there is element of queen control, since my friend do not trust the guy and he is so afraid his boy will leave him for other much more attractive guys - which he does not have the time to know the guy very wel, whether he is a player or just stick to one? there is also some sort of distress - where the guy prefer to go out with my friend's fren instead of him (which is me, myself) - with the reason he is tired with my friend attitude (controlling, easily hurt, amnipulative) and he said to me that he wish that he has more time to know about my friend's attitude before ask the big question .

well, even though the story is not that long and complele, but i guess u have the picture of what i'm telling about . but feel free to coment it and state ur own opinion. duh~ and to my hunny bunny, i really loves u and thank so much to give me enough space n time for my own ... muax, there is none in the world that can be compared with you!

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